Anal sex is not only about penetrating the anal cavity; there are a lot of other activities that encompass performing anal sex. Some couples choose to engage in an activity known as analingus, or -licking of the anal area-, while other people like to engage in basic fingering of the hole. In most cases, whenever a person hears the word anal sex, they immediately start thinking about penetration.
Anal sex is a popular taboo that has gotten a really bad rep. The taboo aspect of this sexual encounter is what makes more couples interested in engaging in it. In fact, a lot of couples that have had anal sex will openly admit that after having this type of sexual encounter they automatically felt closer to one another.
Trust is an important factor to consider when having anal sex. If you do not trust your partner, then it will hurt. I’m not going to tell you that your first experience with anal sex is going to be enjoyable, because mine was not. Even people that have been having anal sex for a long frame of time will feel some type of discomfort every time that they engage in this sexual activity.
Anal sex can hurt if it is done incorrectly. For example, there are many men that try to get away with the surprise anal move. Not only can this move be emotionally damaging, but it can make a person think differently about anal sex altogether. If you and your partner are considering trying anal sex, it is important that you tell them that you are going to stick your cock into their ass before doing the deed.
If your partner has asked you to engage in anal sex with them, but you have no interest in trying it then it will hurt. You have to be completely relaxed when having anal sex. If you do not relax your anus, you will stop any objects from entering the anal canal. If your partner tries to gain entry to this area, you not only risk the chance of hurting yourself but you also risk the chance of hurting them as well.
What I suggest is before you start having anal sex with your partner, you should invest some money into some adult sex toys. Adult sex toys can help you prepare your anus for anal sex. These toys are designed to help you relax your anal cavity, so when your partner decides to shove their erect cock into it, you will not be excruciating pain going forward.
Anal sex can hurt if you are not using a lot of lube. It is important that you not only put some lube on your partner’s member, but that you also apply lube to the outside anal region also. If you are using adult sex toys for anal play you will need to apply a generous amount of lube to the toy as well. When it comes to anal sex you can never have enough lube.